Today’s post, is just going to be mainly about seeing your worth. I think every human being on this earth even those that you think have it all, have all questioned their worth at some point.
I think, a lot of people have compromised their happiness, even me. I have to say my life right now and where I am at in life, is one of the happiest times ever in my life. I don’t actually think my life has ever been this amazing. It all starts with you. It all starts with one decision. A lot of people can relate to being in a relationship that perhaps wasn’t making you happy or fulfilling you in any way. It can be hard to let go of that relationship, I have personally been there and I wasn’t even the one to let it go. I pretty much just couldn’t see how miserable the relationship was making me, and I was pretty much just begging someone to love me even though they really didn’t anymore. That period in my life was definitely one of my darkest, but it was also where I learnt the most about myself and made a decision to change my life.
Valuing yourself really does start with you. I was definitely always one of those people that sacrificed my health and wellbeing for other people. I never put myself first, even though sometimes that might have been the better decision. An example is this year I went on two holidays. One of them was a month in Italy and it was definitely one of the best things I have ever done for myself. Not only did it give me a new perspective on my life, and gave me the well-deserved break I needed. But it also gave me a sense of fulfilment and independence that I think I always longed for and was looking for in my life. I am incredibly proud of myself for doing the hard journey to get there. Spending a month soaking up the sun, gave me a new lease on life.
When I got back, I started to want to take care of myself more and began to watch what I put into m body. Started to give myself more fresh food and vegetables and really just taking care of myself more. Spending a little bit more money on the little things for yourself can seriously help. And I really see a difference in for one just my energy levels and also just in my overall mental state. I am far happier and just a lot more motivated in general. I feel as if I could do anything.
So valuing, yourself is highly important. It is important to value you, so other people’s opinions about you don’t bother you. I encourage everyone to just take that time out for you. Pamper yourself. Treat yourself. Because sweeties you deserve it.